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2025-11-17 17:01
I remember the first time I watched "The Gridiron Gang" - Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson's football movie that somehow manages to be both predictable and profoundly moving. There's this moment where Johnson's character, facing yet another setback with his juvenile detention center football team, looks at his struggling players and says something that's stuck with me for years: "Failure isn't final unless you quit." I was thinking about that line while watching something completely unrelated this past weekend - the PVL Spikers' Turf championship match between Criss Cross and Cignal.
Now, you might wonder what a volleyball match has to do with The Rock's football movie, but bear with me here. On Sunday, two days before the PVL Finals were set to begin, Criss Cross was playing for what would have been their first championship title. They'd fought through the season, reached the rubber match against nine-time champion Cignal, and had some of Creamline's top players watching from the sidelines. The stage was set for an underdog story straight out of Hollywood. Except real life doesn't always follow the script. Criss Cross lost in straight sets - 22-25, 16-25, 26-28. Those numbers tell a story of their own, especially that final set where they came painfully close to turning things around but fell just short.
What struck me wasn't just the loss itself, but how perfectly it illustrated the career lessons from The Rock's movie that we so often overlook. In "The Gridiron Gang," Johnson's character faces what seems like an impossible task - taking troubled teens and turning them into a cohesive football team. They lose games, they struggle with discipline, they face moments where giving up seems like the only logical option. Sound familiar? Criss Cross had been building toward this moment all season, only to fall at the final hurdle against a team that's been there nine times before and knew exactly how to handle the pressure.
Here's where we get to the first career lesson that both the movie and this real-world example teach us: preparation meets opportunity, but experience often trumps both. Cignal didn't win because they were necessarily more talented - they won because they've been in that pressure cooker situation nine times previously. They've felt that championship anxiety, they've played through those moments where everything's on the line, and that institutional knowledge becomes invaluable when the score is tight and the crowd is roaring. In our careers, we often focus so much on preparing for opportunities that we underestimate the value of simply accumulating experiences, even failed ones.
I've been in both positions throughout my career - the hungry newcomer facing the established veteran, and later, the experienced hand facing ambitious challengers. Let me tell you, there's a calm that comes with having been through the wars that no amount of preparation can replicate. When Criss Cross was fighting through that final set, pushing Cignal to 28 points in a 25-point set, they were playing with the desperation of someone who hasn't been there before. Meanwhile, Cignal played with the composure of a team that knew they'd been in tighter spots and survived.
The second lesson revolves around audience and pressure. Having Creamline's players watching from the sidelines adds another layer to this dynamic. Imagine playing the biggest game of your career with your peers - your competitors - studying your every move. That's another parallel to "The Gridiron Gang," where the players aren't just playing for wins but for respect and redemption in the eyes of their community. In our professional lives, we're almost always performing with someone watching - colleagues, competitors, future employers. How we handle that scrutiny often determines opportunities that come later.
What fascinates me about both scenarios is how they demonstrate that growth often comes from these painful near-misses. Criss Cross may have lost this championship, but they've now tasted championship-level pressure. They've felt what it's like to play in a rubber match with everything on the line. That experience, as bitter as it might feel right now, will serve them better than any easy victory would have. I've found the same true in my career - the projects that stretched me to my limits, the presentations that didn't go perfectly, the deals that fell through at the last minute - these were the experiences that ultimately built the resilience needed for real success.
The final set score of 26-28 is particularly telling. They weren't just defeated - they were right there, within touching distance of extending the match and potentially changing the outcome. That's the thinnest of margins, the difference between celebration and heartbreak coming down to a point or two. In both sports and careers, we tend to remember the blowout losses less than these close, painful defeats. They're the ones that keep us up at night, wondering what tiny adjustment might have changed everything.
Here's what I think both The Rock's movie and this volleyball match get right about career development: success isn't linear, and champions aren't built in victory alone. Cignal's nine championships mean they've also experienced their share of losses and near-misses along the way. The Rock's football team in the movie loses before they start winning. Criss Cross may have missed their maiden title this time, but they've now been initiated into what championship pressure feels like. They'll carry that knowledge into next season, just as we carry our professional setbacks and near-misses into our next opportunities.
Watching that match and thinking about The Rock's football movie reminded me that we're all in our own version of a championship match more often than we realize. The audience might be smaller, the stakes different, but the dynamics remain surprisingly consistent. How we handle pressure, what we learn from near-misses, how we respond to falling short - these moments define our professional trajectories far more than our easy victories ever could. The real lesson isn't about avoiding failure, but about learning how to lose in a way that sets up future wins. Criss Cross may have lost the match, but if they're smart about it, they gained something far more valuable - the experience that could make them champions next time.